{"id":219,"date":"2016-11-11T13:12:30","date_gmt":"2016-11-11T13:12:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.themanthanschool.co.in\/blog\/?p=219"},"modified":"2026-04-15T07:11:56","modified_gmt":"2026-04-15T06:11:56","slug":"my-views-on-parenting-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.themanthanschool.co.in\/noida\/blog\/my-views-on-parenting-2\/","title":{"rendered":"My Views On Parenting"},"content":{"rendered":"

All of us want to be a good parent and try and imbibe the best values in our child. In our own way we try to coach and guide our child to become a better person. But, is there a best way to do that? Perhaps not.<\/p>\n

As each one of us is different, we have our own ways to impart the best knowledge and value. At The Manthan School<\/a> we also try to do that in a structured way. In this note I am sharing my views on what is effective parenting. My views are a summation of what I have learnt being a mother, observing other parents and reading about how be a good Parent. As Sadhguru says, \u201cThere is no one standard rule for all children. Different children may need different levels of attention, expression of love, and toughness. Suppose I was standing in a coconut garden and you ask me, \u201cHow much water per plant?\u201d I\u2019d say, \u201cAt least 50 liters per plant.\u201d When you go home, if you give 50 liters to your rose plant, it will die. You must see what kind of plant you have in your house and what it needs\u201d. The same will apply to our children as each one is different.<\/p>\n

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Give Them \u2018True\u2019 Love<\/strong><\/p>\n

People misunderstand that loving their children is to cater to whatever they ask for. Giving them everything they ask for is going too far, isn\u2019t it? When you love, you can do just whatever is needed. When you truly love someone, you are willing to be unpopular and still do what is best for them. At time you have to decide when to say no to the child\u2019s demands.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t Rush Them into Growing Up<\/strong><\/p>\n

It is very important that a child remains a child; there is no hurry to make him into an adult because you can\u2019t reverse it later. When he is a child and he behaves like a child, it\u2019s wonderful. When he becomes an adult and behaves like a child, that\u2019s bad. There is no hurry for a child to become an adult.<\/p>\n

Make It a Time to Learn, Not To Teach<\/strong><\/p>\n

When a child comes, unknowingly you laugh, play, sing, crawl under the sofa, and do all those things that you had forgotten to do.<\/p>\n

What do you know about life to teach your children? A few survival tricks are the only things you can teach. Please compare yourself with your child and see who is capable of more joy? Your child, isn\u2019t it? If he knows more joy than you, who is better qualified to be a consultant about life, you or him?<\/p>\n

When a child comes, it\u2019s time to learn, not teach.<\/p>\n

Also Read: Exploring Education at Every Level<\/a><\/p>\n

Provide a Supportive and Loving Atmosphere<\/strong><\/p>\n

If you set an example of fear and anxiety, how can you expect your children to live in joy? They will also learn the same thing. The best thing you can do is to create a joyous and loving atmosphere.<\/p>\n

Maintain a Friendly Relationship<\/strong><\/p>\n

Stop imposing yourself on the child and create a strong friendship rather than being a boss. Don\u2019t sit on a pedestal and tell the child what she should do. Place yourself below the child so that it\u2019s easy for them to talk to you.<\/p>\n

Avoid Seeking Respect<\/strong><\/p>\n

Love is what you seek with your children, isn\u2019t it? But many parents say, \u201cYou must respect me.\u201d Except that you came a few years early, are bigger in body, and you know a few survival tricks, in what way are you a better life than him?<\/p>\n

Make Yourself Truly Attractive<\/strong><\/p>\n

If you are genuinely interested in giving your children a good upbringing, you should first transform yourself into a peaceful and loving human being.<\/p>\n

A child is influenced by so many things \u2013 the TV, neighbors, teachers, school, and a million other things. He will go the way of whatever he finds most attractive. As a parent, you have to make yourself in a way that the most attractive thing he finds is to be with the parents. If you are a joyous, intelligent, and wonderful person, he won\u2019t seek company anywhere else. For anything, he will come and ask you.<\/p>\n

If you are genuinely interested in giving your children a good upbringing, you should first transform yourself into a peaceful and loving human being.<\/p>\n

Also Read: Manthan a School With International Fame!<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

All of us want to be a good parent and try and imbibe the best values in our child. In our own way we try to coach and guide our child to become a better person. But, is there a best way to do that? Perhaps not. As each one of us is different, we have our own ways to impart the best knowledge and value. At The Manthan School we also try to do that in a structured way….<\/p>\n

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